Online Video Hosting and Storage - What's the Best Option?

For some time now, the advice on storage and hosting for Internet video has consisted largely of, "You Tube is free, so store all your videos on You Tube and embed them from You Tube onto your site."Now I am hearing video "gurus" say, "If you embed your videos from You Tube, people will think you don't know what you're doing!"So what gives? Why the drastic change?First of all, I do not think it is true that the majority of people will assume you don't know what you're doing if you host your videos on YouTube. Granted the early adopter type folks are drifting away from You Tube but the majority is still there...!